When I thought about the woman's soul in me says that no man, no woman, and even the mind, even when I take them, that in me says that mindfulness. Mindfulness — it's not
Therefore, when we talk about the body, about the mind, then the words "man" and "woman" is quite appropriate. However, there is something with the outside of these two concepts, is transcendental. That is the real core of man, his essence. This essence consists only of awareness, presence, observation. It is pure consciousness.
I'm not talking like a man now, the name of the man; in the opposite case to talk about a woman it seemed, that it is not possible at all. I'm talking like mindfulness. Many times, I lived in a woman's body, many times, I lived in a man's body, I was a witness to everything. I saw all the houses, I saw all the clothes. My words are based on the experience not only of this life, but also of many, very many previous lives. Real my life is just the culmination of a long, long pilgrimage.
So, don't take my words as the words of a man or women, not think about it; otherwise, you just can't hear me. Think of me as mindfulness.
(The Dhammapada: The Way of The Buddha)
1. WOMAN
It seems to me that You're the only person on this planet who really understands women and accepts them as they are. Please comment.
I have already said that a woman's need to love, not to understand. This is the first thing.
Life is so mysterious, that it is not possible to stretch up to his height, it is impossible to look into its deeper secrets. Any manifestation of life — man, woman, tree, animal or bird — this is the subject of the examination of the scientist, and not a mystic. I'm not a scientist. Science itself is a mystery to me, and today scientists have begun to recognize it. Today to refuse from your old faulty statements about the fact that once they know the secrets to everything you need to know.
Thanks to Albert Einstein, science has started to develop a completely different direction, because the deeper he was sinking into the mystery of the mass, the greater the confusion came in. He had to give up and from logic and rationality. Life is not what you want, because it is not subject to your logic. Logic — this is a quality inherent in man. Albert Einstein recalls one moment in their life when they had doubts about whether it is necessary at all to stick to rationality... But that would be foolish. Such behavior is typical for humans, but it would be unwise. Even if hard drive logic, rationality, it becomes quite clear that life is completely not to give heed to your logic; on the contrary, the logic of reason must obey the logic of life. There comes a time when one must throw logic, rationality and just listen to nature. I call it the highest understanding, but not in the usual sense of the word. You know it, you feel it, but you lack the words to express it.
The man is a mystery, woman is a mystery, all live — that is the secret, and all our attempts to detect, it is doomed.
I remember a case when in a toy store a man bought a gift for my son for Christmas. Because it was a well-known mathematician, the shop owner decided to give him a picture-puzzle. The mathematician tried to collect her... it was a great puzzle game. To him not able to assemble a picture, it is all sweat and began to feel embarrassed. For his unsuccessful attempts followed the the buyer, the seller and the owner of the store, and it all couldn't collect. Finally he couldn't stand the nerves and yelled at the store owner: "If I, a mathematician, you cannot build this picture, it's like a child cope with this task?"
The owner replied, "You wouldn't understand. Puzzle designed so that no one was able to solve it — and that's not even a mathematician, nor anyone else."
"What is the meaning of such puzzles?" — ask a mathematician.
"This is done in order to ensure that a child from early childhood is taught to understand that life is impossible to unravel, that it cannot understand", — said the owner of the store.
Life you can enjoy, in life, you can rejoice, you can become a part of his secrets, but to understand it, as a bystander, it is absolutely impossible.
I don't understand myself. For me is the biggest mystery myself. But I'll give you some tips:
The psychiatrist is the one who is behind a hefty fee to you asking the same questions, which the wife asks you free of charge.
Keys to happiness: can you talk about love, of tenderness, of passion, but true, that ecstasy you try, when they find out that, after all, you're still not lost their keys.
The woman first batted safely, hit safely attack men, and then cuts off his path of retreat.
If you want to change a woman, I agree with her. If you want to know what women really mean, then look at her, but not listen.
The woman jumped to the police:
Do you see a man on the corner of the house, it works me on my nerves.
— I followed all the time, " said the policeman, — it is not even looked at his side.
— That's exactly it, it works on my nerves.
The romantic young man turned to the beauty in his bed and asked: "I am with you first?"
After thinking a moment, she replied: "it may well be, I have a very bad memory for faces".
Everything is shrouded in mystery: it is better to enjoy life than to try to understand her. After all, the one who is trying to understand life, to show the fool, and one who enjoys life, is becoming a sage and continue to take pleasure, inasmuch as he still more deeply aware of the strangeness of everything that surrounds us.
The greatest understanding lies in the fact that nothing can be understand that still mysterious and beautiful